|Posted by johnson.jonathan.m on September 30, 2013 at 10:45 PM||comments (0)|
*Im in a deeply emotional state after watching half of http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Qoa2jU1NVI *
How much good must I do to redo the negative damage that is done to humanity and to the Earth. I must continue to improve myself and get my give bar extremely high so that I can give in great abundance to humans and to Earth.
Im in an extremely motivated state so I will give my wife a long foot massage.
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|Posted by johnson.jonathan.m on August 18, 2013 at 9:50 PM||comments (0)|
The more I hang around Dana and the more I give to her the more I increase in my sensitivity to the things that she is sensitive to. Compared to three years ago I am more sensative to her work issues, the blinds that make noises when the fan is on, etc. I catch a lot more things that she will be upset about now before she even realizes them. I believe that when we understand the bible in its true form and give to God, over time we will become more sensative to the things that God is sensitive to.
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|Posted by johnson.jonathan.m on August 16, 2012 at 9:05 AM||comments (0)|
The most important thing that someone can do in a relationship is to learn the give/want structure of the other person. It is so simple. What is a give for the other person and what is a want? For example (story time), Dana and I figured out that if we just hold hands while we are discussing something we will automatically go back to balance. It won’t be like happy joyful amazingness after 30 seconds, but we will be moving towards balance rather than away from balance. I just realized two things about Dana’s give/want structure during a discussion. First of all, she wants to know every single last bit of information that she can possibly have, and there is a period of about 30 seconds to a minute where she wants nothing to do with solving the problem. During this time her want is to be upset. This confused me the past month because every time we hold hands we automatically start moving back to balance so once I notice a discussion coming on I will ask for her hand. She will make a statement to the effect of “I don’t want to touch you right now.” This utterly confused me for a solid month until we realized that she has a period where she just wants to be upset and then she will get another want by asking many questions and then finally she will give me her hand so that we can start working towards the balance. This process does not seem the most efficient in my mind, but you know what, it is reality. That is her give/want structure during the discussion and for the time being I need to cater to that structure so that we can be very efficient during our discussions.
In conclusion, learn the give/want structure for different situations for that significant other, friend, etc.
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|Posted by johnson.jonathan.m on June 25, 2012 at 9:05 PM||comments (6)|
Sooooo, Sugydudies, aka, Dana, is the love of my life, and it would take multiple posts to explain everything that she does for me but I will list off a few things that make this girl so important in my life.
I'll start with how my day went today:
First of all, I overslept my alarm this morning, but, Dana being Dana, set her alarm to go off at 7:00 a.m. to make sure that I was awake for work. Might I say that she worked over 12 hours yesterday, having to wake up at 6 yesterday and will also have to wake up at six tomorrow. Boss move
Next, she texted me at 9 to make sure that I made it to work safely (it was raining outside and I was driving my scooter). Boss move number 2.
For lunch at work I had spaghetti that she prepared for me the day before. Boss move number 3.
Once I got off of work it was raining, so what does Sugydudies do? She comes to pick me up. Boss move number 4.
Might I also add that she expects nothing in return and these are things that she does on a regular basis.
She also took me to Chipotle, my favorite restaurant, after she picked me up. Boss move to the infinite.
Like I stated, these are just things that she does on a daily basis. Many more posts about her in the future.
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